“Sometimes you recognize your light only when you’re in the dark”.
An inspiring interview with Neeta Manohar.
Question: Earlier today, while we were talking, you used the phrase “the light within”, how did you come across it?
Neeta: (Smiles) I went to a school that was known for their academics, finessing your demeanor, and building a certain disposition of character. At school, we were asked to sing this song at school during the assembly.
“This little guiding light of mine, I’m going to let it shine.
Don’t you (pouf) my little light out,
I’m going to let it shine,
Take my little light ’round the world,
I’m going to let it shine,
Hide it under a bushel, Oh, no!
I’m going to let it shine,
Let it shine all the time, let it shine.”.
For a strange reason, I always loved that song. That’s when I developed this naïve belief that each one of us has a light within. It is a guiding light, a source of truth, and a source of identity too, if I may say so. And that light finds its unique way to shine in each person. We only see that in the way they serve, the way they lead, the way they love, and even in the way they talk. People’s lives have been changed with just a spark, and I don’t mean just love. And when you have that kind of impact on people and their lives, your light continues to shine through them. It is nice to be aware of it, which also makes it easy to recognize it.
Question: That’s a very unique thought. How does one find this light that has been forgotten?
Neeta: That’s a very loaded question. And the answer to that is different for everyone. There’s no one way. Sadly, the older we grow, we either forget about what makes us unique or we let experiences dim that for us. If you were told you are not smart all your life, it is easy to follow that voice than follow a quiet light. Voices and experiences are more poignant. Darkness has a purpose too. Sometimes, you learn to recognize your light when you’re in the dark.
I guess the question is not how to find this light but to go back and figure out when and where was it left it behind and why. Once you have that, you’ll figure out a way to build it from there, if there is a desire for it.
Question: What do you say to the ones who are happy just the way they are and do not desire this light within?
Neeta: A wise man once told me; ‘the world needs all kinds of people, so there’s harmony’. It does not make one less than the other or vice versa. It’s important we choose respect, kindness, and love over anything else.
Question: Speaking of harmony, and given your knowledge in the field, do you believe AI today will threaten our human relevance? There is so much fear around AI taking over.
Neeta: If anything, we are moving towards a higher potential of efficiency and limitless possibilities, from a technology perspective to make life better. There are multiple facets to answering how AI can be helpful as well as how it can be used to destruct. We can argue to the effect that it may rob future generations of their critical thinking skills, failing to generate original content or ideas. At every milestone of progress and advancement the same risks, questions and concerns arise. Now with AI, we never have seen an advancement of this magnitude. It is imperative to make people aware, informed, and accountable, to use it responsibly. The reason why AI is feared among a few is due to the lack of information and the lack of governance. We are still testing the boundaries of its capabilities. We don’t know how far it can go or the bigger question—should go. At this point, people are bound to have confusion, chaos, and panic. Just like any innovation, there will be a series of trial and error. And we are part of that equation. And getting to the question of ‘relevance’. Humans carry a special gift—the spark of creativity that resides within their souls. AI will never have a soul. We must not overlook the essence of our humanity. We are more than just logical algorithms and data-driven machines. We are beings of emotion, compassion, and limitless creativity. Our ability to dream, imagine, and forge connections that transcend logic is a tapestry of beauty that AI can never replicate. It is within our hearts that true inspiration thrives. Our dreams and desires spark innovation, pushing the boundaries of possibilities. The triumphs of human history, the grand symphonies, the breathtaking art, and the revolutionary scientific breakthroughs are all a testament to the indomitable spirit of the human mind. Our journey as a species is not solely defined by what we can achieve, but by the profound impact we have on one another. Finally, it all comes down to a choice. AI and its components are tools at your disposal, how you use it is your choice.
Question: The word on the street is we can expect another book from you soon. What is it about?
Neeta: Well, I am hoping for ‘soon’. It is still a work in progress. But the book is about, finding your story, and creating new chapters of your life by living out your strengths, dreams, and purpose. Your story deserves your voice and not an echo.
We live in times of perfunctory impressions, fast and easy success that we’ve lost sight of how we are writing our story along the way, and why (the intent). The book will take you on a journey—from identifying your blind spots to helping you re-write new chapters of your life. It’s time to turn a new page!
Question: You have a flair for fashion and look so effortless and chic. What are your three must-haves and style quotient?
Neeta: (Coy Smile!) I am humbled. I’ve always loved following fashion trends. I studied fashion for two years as well. For me, the three must-haves would be, LBD (little black dress), a good pair of fitted pants/jeans, a white t-shirt, a good pair of footwear, and a classic bag. I know, I went beyond three, but that’s just me.
I don’t think I have a style quotient. But to me style is more about comfort. My three go-to wardrobe words – are elegant, classy, and chic. Any outfit I wear could almost always speak to either one of those words. Growing up, cause of tennis, you’re always either wearing shorts or skirts, still chic might I add. But a big part of my being modish at a young age comes from my sister, who always traveled the world and got me clothes that kept up with the trends. And continues to do so!
Question: What’s your source of happiness?
Neeta: (Sheepishly smiles) I have many sources! People that I love and care about, conversations that come from the heart, smiles for no reason, food!!! I am always grateful for these sources, which have found a way to me and stayed. But every now and then, I try and find it in myself to also be that source to the people around me. So, my cup is always full either way!
Question: The art of your thinking has the right balance of wisdom and emotional quotient. What were some of the biggest influences on your thought process?
Neeta: (Laughs) Honesty, I don’t think I have the right answer to that. It probably is everything I care about—my family, friends, experiences, and faith. I was made to recognize my gifts and qualities early on. And I always carried them through the years. I love to read. It is important to have a desire to be informed. And at the core, I like giving it meaning by putting my heart and soul into it. Whether it is relationships or work or a conversation. I am invested by bringing myself to it, and that leaves me feeling content and grateful. What comes in return, is simply an outcome of it. But not everything has to be so serious really, there should be fun and laughter. I love doing goofy things and being goofy. Life is full of surprises, and most times, it is good to simply live in the moment. The unexpected ones are the best.
